Midlife Fairy Godmother Enterprises™ Newsletter

Welcome to the February 2007 Issue of the
Midlife Fairy Godmothers™ Online Newsletter

 

Tips, tools, and treasures for leading edge, midlife women who are ready to become their own fairy godmothers and give themselves permission to be there for themselves the way they always have been for others.

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Personal Message From Dinah

Article Of The Month:  Experiencing Your Soul's Love ~ Your Inner Valentine

New Midlife Tele-Support Group Forming: If you could use some support in being there for yourself: getting your needs met, speaking up for yourself, discovering your desires, these small groups have been highly successful.

When? Thursday evenings, March 8, 15. 22. and 29 from 6:30 - 7:30 PM Eastern/NY time. Fee? $50.00 for all four weeks.

Read more about them and sign up by clicking here: http://www.Midlifefairygodmothers.com/Workshops.htm

"Discovering Your Authentic Soul In Midlife" Tele-class: Many women hit a wall when they try to discover what they want to do with the second half of their life because they have not taken the first step......discovering their authentic soul which got buried a long time ago. In this class we go on a search and rescue mission for your inner qualities, needs, values, passions and authentic spirit.

When? Thursday evenings March 8, 15, 22, and 29 from 8:00 - 9:00 PM Eastern/NY, 9:00 - 10:00 Atlantic, 7:00 - 8:00 Central, 6:00 - 7:00 Mountain, 5:00 - 6:00 Pacific.

 Fee?  $50.00 ~ this includes workbook materials via email, four one hour weekly calls on a conference line, the option of a yahoo support group, and a one 15 minute coaching call with me.

Want to read more about the tele-class? Read reviews from previous participants? Reserve your spot and register? You may pay with credit cards or check.
CLICK HERE:  http://www.midlifefairygodmothers.com/Tele-Classes.htm
 

Personal Message From Dinah
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Happy New Year to all of you! I didn't write you in December or January because I was involved in a head on car accident in December. My car was destroyed, but I am just fine. The air bags went off in my face and all I could see was white. For a moment I wasn't sure where I was. I looked down at my body and realized my feet were still on the earth plane. The next thought was....Oh S*#*#, I don't have full coverage!

Even though it was not my fault, Michigan has no fault insurance and I was out a 2002 Subaru Forrester. Ouch! I was involved in "shopping overwhelm" having to find financing and a new car while figuring out how to do my Christmas shopping! So it was a busy time and no newsletters were written.

The fact is that sometimes the storms of life come at us right when we are just getting back on our feet. The only thing that matters is our attitude. I have found that they key is to not take those storms personally, just as I don't take blizzards personally. Since I am such a nature freak, the metaphor really works for me.

It was one of those times that helps you remember how precious life is and how in the blink of an eye it can be taken away from you. For that I am grateful. I kept my spirits high giving thanks that I can still dance, work hard, and play with my grandchildren.

The midlife support groups are continuing to be a huge testimonial to what women can accomplish with a little bit of support, love, understanding, and most of all permission to be, have, do, and say what feels selfish at first. It is an honor to be supporting all of you. As I do that I also receive a huge rush of "endogenous opioids" -  internally produced chemicals that affect our brains like opium.(read article below) I LOVE MY JOB!

My editor is coming to my home this weekend from Ann Arbor to work on the Midlife Magick(tm) Handbook some more. It's been a very challenging, but rewarding project and the goal is to have it done by the fall.

Michigan is in a deep freeze right now. It's about 5 below zero as I write this! When I'm done I will be running out to the hot tub, taking a moon bath, and then coming in to a cozy fire after a productive day. Life is good!

 I love hearing from you! Please share any comments with me by clicking: mailto:Dinah@Midlifefairygodmothers.com?comments

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Article Of The Month
~*~ Experiencing Your Soul's Love - Your Inner Valentine ~*~
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"When you deepen your relationship with your soul and connect more deeply with the soul of others, you find and follow a path of love that is uniquely yours." Sanaya Roman

 

 

Did you know that when we cheer a friend, rock a baby, nurture others we get a hit of "endogenous opiods", internally produced chemicals that affect our brains like opium? These create a delightful warm, glowy feeling.

 

They have found that it is one of the reasons women look to nurture others....especially when we are stressed. In the past six years researchers found that in women the fight - or - flight response is tempered by a rush of oxytocin which is called the "tend and befriend" hormone.

 

That explained a lot of what was going on for me when I burned out and why, even when I was so depleted, I wanted to nurture even more.

 

The interesting thing is that they also found that any nurturing that we direct toward ourselves triggers the same endogenous - opioid surge we get when we nurture others! Does that make it any easier for your to love and nurture yourself as you do others? I hope so.

 

I have also experience this surge when I give myself an "inner bath" of my soul's love for me. I feel the elixir of love circulate through my entire body. I imagine that I am experiencing sweet, enchanted kisses on my organs and even my cells. I am convinced it had a great deal to do with my healing.

 

The mind can't tell the difference between what we imagine and what we are actually experiencing. This is true inner magick! We have so many magical gifts at our finger tips.

 

 It is said that to experience enlightenment, you cannot sit around and wait for your soul to contact you and do all the work. Although it is always transmitting waves of love to you, you have to know how to recognize and receive it.The easiest way that I have done this is to experience the immense love that my soul has for me through guided inner journeys.

 

Your Inner Valentine Exercise

 

* Find a quiet, safe, comfortable place. Light candles, put on music, and create an atmosphere of love and peace.

 

* Start breathing deeply allowing your belly to rise and fall.

 

* Create the intention to receive all the love that your soul has for you.

 

* Tune into your heart. Get an image of an extremely loving presence showering you with every positive feeling you have ever wanted to feel from someone else - respect, recognition, pride, acceptance, understanding, awe, wonder, and delight. Now let those feelings in.

 

* Allow any emotion that is there to be expressed. Allow yourself to be filled with the Divine elixir of love right down to the cells of your body. Just continue to bask in the love until you feel full.

 

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Enchantingly,

Daina Puodziunas ~ (Dinah)
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