Welcome To Midlife Fairy Godmothers.Com
Empowering midlife women to become their own fairy
godmothers after being all things to all people
Are You Tired Of Watching
Everyone Else Go To The Ball?
Do You Wish The Second Half Of
Your Life Could Be Different?
Are You Feeling Guilty, Selfish,
Stuck, And Scared
When You Try To Make Your Dreams Come True?
"I'm gonna dance upon this earth, I'm gonna find joy in
all this madness...right here now, feeling free!" Song from the Burns
Sisters
* Is your dream spiritual fulfillment, creative self expression,
an ideal lifestyle or career, but you're uncomfortable making yourself a
priority in your life....even though you have given endlessly to others?
* Are you starting over in middle age because of retirement, empty nest,
or a crisis and keep secretly wishing someone.....an agent (guardian angel),
mentor (fairy godmother), or publisher (prince) would come along and make
your dreams come true for your second life?
* Do you have a perfect idea or dream in your head, but find yourself
procrastinating and self-sabotaging when moving from ideas into manifesting
actions?
Most women give up at this point because of
overwhelm, isolation, and fear. Don't let this happen to you!
Why is it so hard for women to
move ahead with their dreams in midlife?
Without knowing it, most of us have bought into the belief that putting
ourselves last is somehow noble, courageous, virtuous, even saintly! I call
this the Cinderella Archetype. We have also become our own task masters. Goals, projects, work and life in general has become a series of tasks and shoulds instead of things that activate and focus our life force. We are in familiar territory when it
comes to selfless giving even when it's at great expense to us. This is constantly
reinforced by our society.
If we want to enter the Enchanted Land of our
dreams and become the queen of our queendom, we have to enter new territory.
We have to hold ourselves in high regard and learn to give to ourselves as
much as we give to others.
In order to move forward, you will need to learn how to stretch outside
the security of
your comfort zone and give yourself permission to become your own Fairy
Godmother.
"About Becoming"
For a long time I felt like a Cinderella
with my reality among the cinders
while I fantasized about the glass slipper.
Nothing was accomplished
until I learned I could be
my own fairy godmother
And all things became possible.
Theta Burke
No amount of seminars, affirmations, prayers, or teachers will get you
out of your familiar territory and into your Enchanted Land unless you give
yourself permission to become your own Fairy Godmother (the Wise Crone) and break the spell
of the Cinderella Complex.
Become the adventurous spirit you wanted to be....before you became the
responsible adult you felt you had to be.
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The dictionary defines a Fairy Godmother as: "A generous benefactor.....a
female character in some fairy stories who has magical powers and can bring
unexpected good fortune to the hero and heroine."
In order to set yourself free to
be, do, and have your heart's desires, I have created:
Midlife Renewal
For Second Half Bliss
A 5 Step Formula For Breaking The
Spell Which Keeps You From Making Your Dreams Come True
This is your magic wand......This will give you what will feel like...
magical powers to free yourself!
Step 1 - Be Willing To Be Radically Honest With
Yourself.
This is crucial as you enter your Enchanted Land and
begin to create an amazingly supportive environment around yourself. We all
have blind spots we're not aware of. When we commit to self honesty, we have
a chance to begin seeing clearly.
Step 2 - Experience Your Own Homecoming.
Access and bond with the source of endless unconditional love within
yourself. Once you do this, you will not need to look outside of yourself
for love, acceptance, or recognition. It will also help you hear your own
inner Fairy Godmother's voice over the 'should' and fear voices in your
head.
Step 3 - Identify Your Enchanted Intention.
This is the feeling or essence of what
makes you come alive....the spirit of your life....your North Star. It will
help you orient yourself as you enter your Enchanted Land and make daily
choices and decisions.
Step 4 - Go On A Quest To Discover Your Authentic Soul.
"When we are cut off from our own truth, disconnected from our own wisdom and shut down in our heart, we block the flow of power and universal energy into our lives. When we reconnect with our truth and authenticity these obstructions are removed and that power surges back through us." Barbara De Angelis
One is that there must be only
one person in first place all the time. We can replace that with: It's
possible to have equal concerns for yourself AND your loved ones! How's that
for a new paradigm?
Step 5 - Resolve Conflicting Intentions.
A part of you wants one thing (like to keep you safe and protected) and
another part wants something else (to spread your wings and fly). The result
is the same as having one foot on the gas and one on the break. You stay
where you are....stuck! Resolving conflicting intentions will help you
release your imprisoned splendor that has been locked away for a long time.
I know all about this first
hand.....
**** I received a huge wake up call
in midlife. Like many women I fell into the fist half of my life, found
myself guided by my "nice self" vs. my "real self", and paid a dear price
for it. I was a super single mom and was diagnosed with chronic illnesses. I
was afraid for my life and decided to answer my wake up call through what
felt like incredibly self indulgent means.
I took a five year midlife sabbatical to nourish and nurture myself
spiritually, mentally, emotionally, and physically. What it ended up being
was a very long vision quest. I completely healed with absolutely no medical
interventions....only through using my mind, body, spirit, and nature
connection and homeopathy.
What I discovered was that:
** We burn out, not by giving away too much, but by trying
to give what we do not yet possess.
** We literally burn out when we dim our own light.
** Our immune system is directly connected to how real we
are being with ourselves.
Of course I continue to learn how to be my own Fairy Godmother. I just
ended a ten year relationship last fall.
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**** MY PASSION HAS BEEN HELPING
WOMEN EMPOWER THEMSELVES DURING MY ENTIRE LIFE. Immersed in the self help
field for decades, I founded my own personal
growth and development business in 1986. I designed spiritual Women's Wisdom
Retreats (sm) to help women bridge the gap between the physical (nature,
body, $, home, career) and the spiritual for ten years before I became ill.
I have recently started them back up! I also conducted over 180 firewalking
seminars as a firewalking instructor helping women learn how to move through
their fears and build self esteem.
**** Before I started my personal
growth business, I was a "doula" helping women with their aftercare
following homebirths for five years. I was also a certified childbirth
education instructor.
Comments from a recent client:
"I have passed your website info on to so many people in the past few
weeks, since it seems that there are indeed so many women I know, who are
ready to "step into" their life's work, but hold themselves back in a
variety of self-limiting ways. I believe (and now have experienced first
hand) the service and support you provide is so very valuable, encouraging,
empowering, and inspiring, that more women should be make aware of what you
do and how you can help them realize and manifest their dreams. Feel free to
use this testimonial if you need to !!!!"
Lori Rotolo
rotolori@hotmail.com
Founder of "Lighten UP!"
A company providing consulting
and workshops to organizations
to Create Joy In The Workplace
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